Wednesday, July 21, 2010

The adventure begins...

The last time I walked onto an aircraft via tarmack steps was in San Juan, Puerto Rico upon returning from the islands. This time, I’m departing Columbus, OH bound for Washington D.C. I must be the only passenger making a connection, seeing as though my bag is the sole piece of checked luggage. It’s rather comical to see my little red suitcase sitting all alone on the underbody conveyor. All the other unlucky souls are probably traveling for business or a short trip with their carry-on packages. But my bag and I are headed for an adventure. Makes me wonder if luggage chats to one another about their final destinations; their baggage tags cause for braggery. The gentleman across the aisle looks stuffy in his suit. I would never want to travel in anything but my jeans and sneakers.


At the Dulles airport I become hyper-aware of all the families traveling with screaming kids. Maybe because the last 21 months have programmed my ear to tune into such pleas or because I’m not too busy with my own wiggly toddler to notice. Either way, I relish in the fact that today that’s not me.


Nope. Today I am just Hayley again. Not responsible for anyone but myself. Free to spend my time dreaming, observing, doodling, and resting. I can’t honestly say that I miss Avery yet. Since her birth we have never spent even 24 hours apart from one another. I consider that a blessing. Yet somehow I think these next two weeks will vastly refresh my spirit, refocus my faith, and restore my passions.


Flight to Johannesburg, South Africa:


Delayed in Dulles. Board the plane an hour prior to departure. Two seater window all to myself. “Please take up your seats.” Nothing like an old man smacking his menthol phlegm in your ear. Amazing wingtip flex and engine wobble amidst the clouds. Looks as though the outer engine might just snap off. Taking a page from the husband’s travel log: rum, coke & Unisom. Fleeing the sun as it melts into the Atlantic. Full meal, full belly, fast asleep. Pit stop in Dakar for fuel and a sunrise. Also acquire a seat buddy - fortunately he’s quiet and smells nice. Another meal, another snooze, another sunset behind us. Arrive in the pitch black over a sea of amber stars. Closer to the ground I almost laugh out loud when the only thing I recognize is the glow of some golden arches. At least I know any craving for a BigMac won’t go unresolved. Flying for 17 hours over sea and land reminds me just how vast this world is. And how infinitely small I am.


After delays in both ports we finally arrive in Johannesburg nearly 2.5 hours late. I wait an additional hour for my checked luggage to appear. By now I’ve missed the last flight to Cape Town and am informed I will be spending the night in Joburg (as the locals call it). At this point I have no local currency, no cellphone, and I am alone. Fortunately everyone speaks english and the hotel room was provided compliments of my airline. A swanky place, I might add. Although the room is oddly missing a clock of any kind. I have to turn the t.v. to the weather channel just to know the time. Almost 11p. Better try and get some rest.


Airplane self-portrait
Good-bye USA
Hey-lo my leettle friends!
Drive up steps in Dakar
My swank hotel room in Joburg - complete with nude wall drawing!
Hotel Metcourt lobby
Made it to S. Africa - long day and tired.

Sunday, July 11, 2010

Summer in Ohio


I'm on a boat!
Uncle Casey and Avery were equally captivated by The Little Mermaid (on VHS no less, ha!)
Amazing how long a little flag will entertain a child.
Enjoying the Red, White, and Boom street scene.
Happy 4th!
Best way to beat the heat...
Nothing like a popsicle dessert!
Four generations!

Sunday, June 20, 2010

Artsy Fartsy

Avery's first ART class!
I should totally set up her own paint station in our garage...
Look at those straight lines!
They even have snacks and storytime at art class.
So proud of her first masterpiece!

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

Del Mar Fair!

There is nothing quite like a quality county fair. The insane rides, the show animals, the deep fried stick foods, and of course - hands down - THE BEST people watching on the planet. I left newly grateful for life's simple things... like having all my teeth.

Feeding the sheep - Avery thought it was hilarious.

This chicken was channeling Lady Gaga.

Good friends Leah and Charlie!

Officially introduced my child to deep-fried-fair-food... YES!

What a great afternoon...

Monday, June 7, 2010

Dinner Convo

With a husband deployed and no one but a toddler to talk to over dinner, conversation is a bit limited. These days it mostly consists of Avery using her first sentence over and over - "Where is he?" She asks where Daddy is at least 3 times a day!

Saturday, May 29, 2010

Understanding Opposites

Little Stinker!

Tuesday, May 25, 2010

Bayward Bound

Avery and I took an inpromptu trip to the Bay area to visit family and friends over the weekend!

Katie was home from Greenville!

Avery LOVED Dixie!

Favorite Great Uncle Tim!

Lunch with Grandma Laurie!

Avery recognized Grandpa Chuck from the flashcards!

BBQ with old friends at the McGaheys.

Mr. Zack teaching Avery the ways of the kitty.

Cheese face with her Aunties!

Monday, May 24, 2010

New Work

I recently have been busy with a couple new art projects. One of which was to re-illustrate some children's literature for an orthodontic supply company. They decided on a cartoon look and these are a few of the final 9 images. Great to be back in the art game and getting paid for it!

Also finished the pear oil painting I'd been working on...

Sunday, May 9, 2010

What a Weekend!

This Mother's Day weekend was one for the books! Saturday morning the La Jolla Debutante Society hosted a complimentary brunch at the Hotel Del Coronado for the spouses and children of deployed servicemen. We joined a couple of friends and enjoyed time munching on exquisite fare.

Saturday afternoon Avery and I took a picnic lunch to the naval housing community pool. We've lived here over a month and hadn't been there yet. They have a great little 1 ft wading area for the small people!

Saturday evening myself and 30 other Team 3 wives were invited to the Naval Special Warfare Foundation Benefit Dinner & Live Auction. The event was held at a private home in Pt. Loma whose backyard literally drops into the Pacific. This amazing group financially supports all kinds of resources for men and families like ourselves. It was a little overwhelming to see multiple people raise their cards for $25,000 gifts like it was no big deal. Reminds me how incredibly blessed we are to be a part of this unique community - they even paid for our babysitting!

After a Saturday like that, Sunday was decidedly more chill. Avery let me sleep in till 9am (wa-hoo) and we started our day with a walk around the neighborhood, checkin' out the playgrounds. During her nap I squeezed in a little painting in my "studio" (really just a corner of the garage, but, hey, I'm not complaining!).

And what more perfect ending to my second Mother's Day, than this gorgeous arrangement sent by Matt. He sure knows how to make my heart sing...

Friday, May 7, 2010

Flashcards

Avery loves taking the picture frames off of our bookshelf and looking at the people.

In an effort to keep little fingerprints off my frames, I recently put together some laminated flashcards for her to play with. They are the name and photo of the people who love her! Even though we don't get to see all our friends and family as much as we would like, at least now Avery can look at and talk to them whenever she wants!