On Fridays when the weather cooperates, I've taken to jog-walking
around our neighborhood with Lear in the stroller and Avery on her
razor scooter. As we were chatting about life, Avery randomly says,
"Mom, I would really like to ride a ferry. Can we go today?" I knew that
I had laundry piled up and a grocery list to make and vacuuming to do, but today I
felt like forgetting all that and saying yes.
A google "ferry" search,
sandwich lunches in the car, and an hour later we were at the Norfolk
docks. We rounded the corner just as the boat was pulling away.
Fortunately,
it returns every 30 minutes, so we took pics with the "locals" and
hunted down a money machine since the ferry requires exact change and I rarely
carry cash. The closest ATM was inside a Hooters restaurant and while
the bartender made change for my $20, Avery whispers to me, "Why are
they all working in their bathing suits?" Modesty lesson!
The Elizabeth River
Ferry is an old school paddlewheel boat complete with steam
stacks. Avery was in charge of counting out our fare. Math lesson! We then chose
seats on the upper deck for the best view.
Lear was very unsure of the whole experience, glued to my lap as far away from the railing as possible. My adventurous first born, on the other hand, wanted to see it all.
A 15 minute ride dropped us at the dock near old town Portsmouth where we spent 2 hours discovering the wonders of High Street. Did you know the old bike with the giant front wheel is called a Penny Farthing? History lesson! Had a little science lesson on sundials and telling time, too.
Joy in the form of a random sidewalk piano with a "play me" sign. Not really a music lesson, but music to my ears for sure.
Couldn't pass up two sweet smiley requests for ice cream. Fine motor skill lesson!
Strolling along in the sunshine with no particular schedule or timeline was glorious. It had been entirely too long since I'd spent an entire afternoon just enjoying my kids. Why do I do that? Why do I get so tangled in my menial "jobs" that I overlook the bigger picture?
Moral of the story: sometimes when your daughter asks - say yes. Even if it's inconvenient. A tiny bit of flexibility and willingness to fly with the whims of a 4 year old just may turn into the best day you've had in a very long time.
The sundial said it all, "Time takes all but memories." Best to spend more of that time making them.











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